Method of promoting self-esteem by assembling a personalized kit

ABSTRACT

A personalized gift kit for promoting self-esteem and its method of use are disclosed. The invention promotes self-esteem, i.e., a basic human need for positive feelings about oneself, by recognizing, acknowledging, reinforcing, and encouraging the admirable and unique qualities of each individual recipient of the gift. The promotion is achieved by identifying desirable qualities of the recipient (lists of examples are provided but qualities are not limited to the lists included), recording the qualities on a personalized enclosure card and inserting preselected chips into the provided container. The chips are preprinted and/or hand printed with the appropriate corresponding qualities demonstrated by the individual who will receive the gift. The positive reflections (which can be referred to as &#34;feedback&#34;), embodied in the presonalized gift, assist the recipient in recognizing his own admirable qualities while increasing his/her feelings of being valued and appreciated, which enchances the individual&#39;s self-esteem.

FIELD OF THE INVENTION

This invention relates to an esasily assembled, personalized gift kitwhich identifies and acknowledges the qualities which the presenteradmires in the recipient. More particularly the invention relates to apersonalized gift kit which extends and personalizes the concept ofgreeting cards by tapping a basic human need, namely, the need forself-esteem.

BACKGROUND OF THE INVENTION

As any psychologist will confirm, one of a human's needs is the need forself-esteem, i.e., the need for positive feelings about oneself.Self-esteem is to humanistic psychology what numbers are to mathematics,because a person's whole range of human experience, including allinterpersonal relationships and behavior, are influenced by how littleor how much one values oneself. In other words, a person's mental healthis affected by his or her level of self-esteem. Low self-esteem is atthe core of many, if not all psychological problems, including drug andalcohol abuse. Until the underlying issue--low self-esteem--isaddressed, there is little hope of our winning the drug war.

One method of enhancing another's self-esteem is to provide positive"feedback" to that individual, acknowledging his/her admirable qualitiesand why she/he is uniquely appreciated. The "feedback" received assiststhe individual in recognizing and acknowledging her/his own personalattributes. Further, individuals usually experience increased feelingsof personal worth and self-esteem when they feel cared for and valued byothers. In addition, persons who give positive "feedback" to others alsoenhance their own self-esteem in the process, by having a positive focusand sharing their love and/or goodwill.

Accordingly, it is an object of this invention to provide a means ofpositive "feedback" indicating why the recipient of the gift is uniquelyappreciated by the presenter.

It is another object to provide an easily assembled, inexpensive kitwhich, when assembled, serves as a personalized gift which recognizes,acknowledges, reinforces, and encourages admirable qualities ofindividuals of all ages, including friends, lovers, spouses, parents,grandparents, children, employees, and other close associates.

It is another object of the invention to provide a tangible reminder forthe recipient of why she/he is cherished by the presenter.

Still another object is to provide an easily assembled kit which whenassembled constitutes a gift which increases the feelings of lovabilityand self-esteem in both the presenter and recipient.

SUMMARY OF THE INVENTION

These and other objects are accomplished by providing a personalizedgift kit which comprises as its essential components: a container withan opening, preferably a two-piece jug-like container with a slot; anenclosure card to identify the presenter and/or recipient for use whenit is given as a gift; a set of directions for assembling the kit; and anumber of chips, some of which are colored and preprinted withoutstanding quality characteristics and are of a size which permit entryinto the container through the aforementioned opening.

Optionally, the kit may also contain the following additional items: (1)a "write-on-anything" pen, (2) one addressed post card to themanufacturer of the kit, (3) "The Laudable 25 Sense" recognitioncertificate, (4) name plate, and (5) a postcard for professionalpersonalization of name plate. The set of directions may be inserted ina folder in the kit. This folder also contains a list of over 270qualities broken down into five categories and many subcategories.Because there is symbolic meaning associated with various colors, thelist of values and/or qualities shown in Table 1 below are grouped underthe color which represents or symbolizes similar qualities. Thesubgroups separate various facets of the symbolic meaning. Manyqualities have been linked with a color through loose associations. Withdifferent interpretations, they may be linked with other colors. TheTable 1 list is merely a guideline and each individual may select thequalities and color which he or she finds appropriate. It is preferredto include in the kit 51 quality currency chips in the shape ofhearts--25 preprinted with quality characteristics, 25 left blank and a26th printed chip with the wording "The Laudable 25 Sense.

DESCRIPTION OF THE DRAWINGS

FIG. 1 is a perspective view of the jug-like container with a slotthrough which the quality currency chips are to be inserted.

FIG. 2 is a one sided view of the preprinted quality currency chips inthe shape of hearts.

DETAILED DESCRIPTION

While the invention is susceptible of embodiments in many forms, thereis shown in the drawings and will herein be described in detail aspecific embodiment with the understanding that the present disclosureis to be considered an exemplification of the principles of theinvention and is not intended to limit the invention to the particularembodiment illustrated.

Referring to FIG. 1, the two-piece container which can be of glass,plastic or ceramic, is in the shape of a jug about 7 inches high andapproximately 41/2 inches in diameter. The bank-like slot at the mouthof the jug is approximately 2 inches in length, the width of the mouthbeing approximately 21/4 inches. In some versions there is a flange atthe separation between the top and bottom portions of the jug. A nameplate which can vary in size and shape but preferably is about 2 inchesby 1/2 inch is attached to the top portion of the container by adhesiveor other fastening means.

Illustrated in FIG. 2 is a set of 25 preprinted quality currency chipsarranged in five rows of five. The chips can be made of plastic, paper,metal or wood. In the figure, the top row preferably colored red on bothsides of the heart shape chips contains the following printedwords--charity, compassion, courage, love and receptivity. On the backside of each of the heart shape chips is printed the words "QualityCurrency." The four rows below the top row are preferably coloredorange, yellow, green and blue respectively. The twenty qualitycharacteristics printed on the chips on the bottom four rows areaccountability, excellence, independence, industry, self-discipline,commitment, courtesy, justice, loyalty, responsibility, appreciation,aspiration, curiosity, trust, self-esteem, honesty, cognition,integrity, peace, and truth.

To assemble the personalized gift from the kit of this invention thefirst step for the presenter, i.e., the purchaser, to perform is toidentify the qualities and/or values which the presenter admires in thedesignated recipient. The presenter may demonstrate his or her ownintegrity by waiting until he or she actually observes a quality beforehe or she acknowledges it, even though the presenter believes therecipient may possess qualities which the presenter has not yetrecognized.

The second step is for the presenter to record the qualities/values onthe inside of the gift enclosure including all qualities which thepresenter has identified even though some may not appear on Table 1. Ifthere are no corresponding quality currency chips for some of thequalities which have been identified, those qualities should be printedon the blank quality currency chips using the indelible ink penoptionally enclosed in the gift kit.

                                      TABLE 1                                     __________________________________________________________________________    RED     ORANGE  YELLOW  GREEN    BLUE                                         __________________________________________________________________________    The sense of:                                                                         The sense of:                                                                         The sense of:                                                                         The sense of:                                                                          The sense of:                                charity accountability                                                                        commitment                                                                            appreciation                                                                           honesty                                      compassion                                                                            excellence                                                                            courtesy                                                                              aspiration                                                                             cognition                                    courage independence                                                                          justice curiosity                                                                              integrity                                    love    industry                                                                              loyalty trust    peace                                        receptivity                                                                           self-discipline                                                                       responsibility                  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The next step for the presenter in assembling the kit is to insert theappropriate quality currency chips into the slot of the container. Ifthe presenter has identified in the recipient all 25 of the preprintedqualities, "The Laudable 25 Sense" chip is also inserted. In that case,the enclosed postcard is filled out and returned to the manufacturerwith the recipient's name and address and the presenter's acknowledgmentthat the recipient is eligible for "The Laudable 25 Sense" Award. Therecipient will then be sent a certificate in recognition of this honor.

The gift package once completely assembled is ready for presentation tothe recipient. It can be delivered via mail or presented preferably inperson with an accompanying warm embrace. The resulting smile on therecipient's face should bring joy to the presenter.

If there are remaining quality currency chips from the kit, they can beadded to the recipient's jug at a later date as additional qualities aredemonstrated and recognized.

The gift kit of the present invention is believed unique and has manyadvantages. Not only does the gift, easily assembled from the kit withenclosed instructions, serve a social and psychological need but it alsohas a universal appeal to males and females of school age through oldage. Additionally it has positive symbolism, is personalized, isaesthetically appealing and while it has game-like and toy-like featuresthe gift kit is neither a game nor a toy. The giving of the gift itself,following its assembly, gives joy not only to the one who receives itbut also to the one who gives it.

It is to be understood that the kit of my invention need not be given asa gift to another. It may simply be used as a means of improving one'sown self-esteem or for working with another or other individuals withoutactually giving the kit.

What is claimed is:
 1. A method of promoting self-esteem by assembling apersonalized kit whose features comprise--(a) chips imprinted with oneor more character quality words such as, but not limited to, honesty,integrity, loyalty, justice, courtesy, and responsibility; (b) blankchips for hand printing of character quality words not found among theprinted chips; and (c) a container with an opening of a size whichpermits the insertion of the chips through the opening; said methodcomprising the steps of: identifying the character qualities and/orvalues recognized and admired in the designated individual for whom thesaid kit is being assembled; recording on any enclosure card theidentified admirable character qualities/values; recording on the sameenclosure card, the name of the recipient and the name of the presenteror the individual assembling the kit; selecting the preprinted chipswhich correspond to those qualities identified and recorded; printing,by hand, the remaining identified qualities on the blank chips;inserting the selected preprinted chips and the hand printed chips intothe container; inscribing the recipient's name on the container;presenting the assembled personalized kit to the recipient with anaccompanying warm embrace; and completing the following three steps onlywhen 25 specified qualities such as, but not limited to, Charity,Compassion, Courage, Love, Receptivity, Accountability, Excellence,Independence, Industry, Self-discipline, Commitment, Courtesy, Justice,Loyalty, Responsibility, Appreciation, Aspiration, Curiosity, Trust,Self-esteem, Honesty, Cognition, Integrity, Peace, Truth, have beenidentified in the recipient--inserting a chip imprinted with the words,"The Laudable 25 Sense", into the container, listing those 25 specifiedqualities together with the recipient's name on a card or paperdesignated as a recognition certificate, and presenting the recognitioncertificate to the recipient.
 2. A method of promoting self-esteem byassembling a personalized kit whose features comprise--(a) heart-shapedand colored chips imprinted on one side with the words "QualityCurrency" and, on the reverse side, imprinted with one or more characterquality words; (b) heart-shaped and colored chips imprinted on one sidewith the words "Quality Currency" and having a blank reverse side forhand printing of quality words not found among the imprinted chips; (c)a two-piece, jug-like container imprinted with the words "Jugs of Hugs"and with a slot for the insertion of the chips; (d) an enclosure cardfor recording admirable character qualities and identifying thepresenter and/or recipient of the kit; (e) a set of directions includinglists of over 270 examples of admirable character qualities; (f) a nameplate for application to the surface of the container; (g) a pen whichis capable of writing on said chips, said container, any name plate andan enclosure card; and (h) "The Laudable 25 Sense" award chip forrecognizing 25 specified character qualities and a recognitioncertificate listing those same qualities, or an addressed post card tothe manufacturer of said kit to obtain such recognition certificate;said method comprising the steps of-- identifying the characterqualities and/or values recognized and admired in the designatedindividual for whom the said kit is being assembled; recording on anenclosure card the identified admirable character qualities/values;recording on the enclosure card, the name of the recipient and the nameof the presenter or the individual assembling the kit; selecting thepreprinted chips which correspond to those qualities identified andrecorded; printing the remaining identified qualities on the blankchips, using a pen; inserting the selected preprinted chips and the handprinted chips into the container; inscribing a name plate with therecipient's name by hand printing with a pen or optionally sending ortaking it to a professional for engraving; affixing said name plate tothe container; presenting the assembled personalized kit to therecipient with an accompanying warm embrace; and completing thefollowing three steps only when 25 specified qualities have beenidentified in the recipient--inserting "The Laudable 25 Sense" awardchip into the container, registering the recipient's name on therecognition certificate or completing and returning the post card and,presenting the recognition certificate to the recipient.